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Sep
08
Help Your Child Label Their Emotions, Not Themselves

Help Your Child Label Their Emotions, Not Themselves

We humans usually get labeling backward. We label ourselves, not our emotions. When we reverse it, we can feel so
5 min read
Sep
05
I Do, We Do, You Do: a Confidence Builder

I Do, We Do, You Do: a Confidence Builder

A simple high-impact model for helping kids of all ages get unstuck. My 19-year-old daughter is a collector: plants, empty
3 min read
Sep
03
Honor Your Bandwidth

Honor Your Bandwidth

ITS articles are written with the info-saturated brain in mind. Most of the posts here In the Seeds are short
1 min read
Sep
03
Parents Co-Regulate Kids' Nervous Systems

Parents Co-Regulate Kids' Nervous Systems

This post contains affiliate links that earn this independent publication a small commission. The Science of Co-Regulation Anxiety can be
3 min read
Sep
01
Humor, a Proclamation, a Love Letter

Humor, a Proclamation, a Love Letter

For many of us, humor is a love language, a coping skill, and a way to stay in balance when
2 min read
Aug
08
A Flexible Approach to Get Teens Outside

A Flexible Approach to Get Teens Outside

Here's how to encourage your child or teen to connect with nature: Be okay with the earbuds going
2 min read
Aug
07
Drawing Boundaries with "Doomrollers"

Drawing Boundaries with "Doomrollers"

You don't have to get steamrolled by someone else's need to share bad news... I had
3 min read
Aug
04
Capturing Emotions in Words Calms the Nervous System

Capturing Emotions in Words Calms the Nervous System

Putting specific words to feelings helps dial down stress. But... they don't always need to be real words.
7 min read
Aug
03
Sparking Conversation: The Family Dinner Project

Sparking Conversation: The Family Dinner Project

Check out a list of "Late Night Talk Show" questions your family can use for engaging conversation. Research
4 min read
Aug
01
Woo-Hoo! A Book Review!

Woo-Hoo! A Book Review!

Woo-Hoo! is a totally charming new kids' book featuring the chicken we all really, really need. This post contains
2 min read